<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Real Solutions &#187; story telling</title>
	<atom:link href="http://realsolutions.ie/tag/story-telling/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://realsolutions.ie</link>
	<description>Real learning, real tools, real actions</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 11:20:14 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0</generator>
<xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" />
		<item>
		<title>Let The Great World Spin</title>
		<link>http://realsolutions.ie/2011/06/let-the-great-world-spin/</link>
		<comments>http://realsolutions.ie/2011/06/let-the-great-world-spin/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 11:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Excellence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Featured]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[New perspective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[achievement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[goal setting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[positive attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[story telling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[success]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://realsolutions.ie/?p=511</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have just finished reading this inspiring book by Colum McCann on the wonderful story of Philippe Petit who walked on a tightrope between the twin towers. Inspiring for me because of the actions of one man &#38; but also because it looks at the thoughts &#38; perspectives of those people who were looking on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have just finished reading this inspiring book by Colum McCann on the wonderful story of Philippe Petit who walked on a tightrope between the twin towers. Inspiring for me because of the actions of one man &amp; but also because it looks at the thoughts &amp; perspectives of those people who were looking on at him.</p>
<p>Philippe&#8217;s rigourous training for this walk took place mostly in a quiet meadow. When he was there he would visualise the twin towers &amp; the the city below him with its noise &amp; distractions. When he was on the actual walk he brought himself back to the quite &amp; peacefulness of that meadow. There was method to his madness &amp; to his training.  He was able to use powerful visualisations to help him prepare &amp; when doing the actual walk, keep him focused on the job at hand. But truly inspiring part for me is that Philippe had a crazy dream &amp; he was willing to sacrifice his life to achieve it.</p>
<p>The other interesting piece to this is his regime of training to prepare for all scenairos (ok it was a life or death scenario so he had to!) Philippe had to prepare for all eventualities. His friends would shake the wire vigorously, he practised in all types of weather, the worst the better. One of my favoutite lines from this book is  &#8220;He laughed into the teeth of the wind&#8221;.</p>
<p><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="425" height="350" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="src" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/OpQCUXNo5GI&amp;feature" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/OpQCUXNo5GI&amp;feature"></embed></object></p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://realsolutions.ie/2011/06/let-the-great-world-spin/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Positive attitude attracts business</title>
		<link>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/06/positive-attitude-attracts-business/</link>
		<comments>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/06/positive-attitude-attracts-business/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 13:03:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Featured]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[achievement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[building relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[positive attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[story telling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[success]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://realsolutions.ie/?p=282</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A landscape gardener ran a business that had been in the family for two or three generations. The staff were happy, and customers loved to visit the store, or to have the staff work on their gardens or make deliveries &#8211; anything from bedding plants to ride-on mowers. For as long as anyone could remember, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-294" href="http://realsolutions.ie/2010/06/positive-attitude-attracts-business/sdc10052-2/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-294" title="SDC10052" src="http://realsolutions.ie/wp-content/uploads/SDC100521-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>A landscape gardener ran a business that had been in the family for 			 two or three generations. The staff were happy, and customers loved to visit 			 the store, or to have the staff work on their gardens or make deliveries &#8211; 			 anything from bedding plants to ride-on mowers.</p>
<p>For as long as anyone could remember, the current owner and previous 			 generations of owners were extremely positive happy people.</p>
<p><strong>Most folk assumed it was because they ran a successful 			 business.</strong></p>
<p><strong>In fact it was the other way around&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>A tradition in the business was that the owner always wore a big 			 lapel badge, saying <strong>Business Is Great!</strong></p>
<p>The business was indeed generally great, although it went through 			 tough times like any other. What never changed however was the owner&#8217;s 			 attitude, and the badge saying <strong>Business Is Great!</strong></p>
<p>Everyone who saw the badge for the first time invariably asked, 			 &#8220;What&#8217;s so great about business?&#8221; Sometimes people would also comment that 			 their own business was miserable, or even that they personally were miserable 			 or stressed.</p>
<p>Anyhow, the <strong>Business Is Great!</strong> badge always tended to start 			 a conversation, which typically involved the owner talking about lots of 			 positive aspects of business and work, for example:</p>
<ul>
<li>the pleasure of meeting and talking with different people every 				day</li>
<li>the reward that comes from helping staff take on new challenges 				and experiences</li>
<li>the fun and laughter in a relaxed and healthy work environment</li>
<li>the fascination in the work itself, and in the other people&#8217;s 				work and businesses</li>
<li>the great feeling when you finish a job and do it to the best of 				your capabilities</li>
<li> the new things you learn every day &#8211; even without looking to do 				so</li>
<li>and the thought that everyone in business is blessed &#8211; because 				there are many millions of people who would swap their own situation to have 				the same opportunities of doing a productive meaningful job, in a civilized 				well-fed country, where we have no real worries.</li>
</ul>
<p>And so the list went on. And no matter how miserable a person was, 			 they&#8217;d usually end up feeling a lot happier after just a couple of minutes 			 listening to all this infectious enthusiasm and positivity.</p>
<p>It is impossible to quantify or measure attitude like this, but to 			 one extent or another it&#8217;s probably a self-fulfilling prophecy, on which point, 			 if asked about the badge in a quiet moment, the business owner would confide:</p>
<p>&#8220;The badge came first. The great business followed.&#8221;</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/06/positive-attitude-attracts-business/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>The Magic of Storytelling in Business</title>
		<link>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/03/the-magic-of-storytelling-in-business/</link>
		<comments>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/03/the-magic-of-storytelling-in-business/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Make an Impression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[building relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[story telling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[success]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://realsolutions.ie/?p=163</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I read recently that back in old Ireland, the storyteller was one of the most important people in old Irish society,  second in social ranking to the lawmakers.  Seanchai is Irish for “storyteller” or “old talker” to get closer to the actual meaning. What a wonderful way to get your message across by telling an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="drop_cap">I</span> read recently that back in old Ireland, the storyteller was one of the most important people in old Irish society,  second in social ranking to the lawmakers.  <em>Seanchai</em> is Irish for “storyteller” or “old talker” to get closer to the actual meaning. What a wonderful way to get your message across by telling an interesting or funny story. When you look at the success of YouTube (which for me is a collection of stories from people around the world) we can see that people still value sharing stories. A good story will draw us in &amp; make the experience so much more interesting. We also tend to remember the story or the person who told it. I was at a networking event recently , when someone told the group  a funny story in relation to his business &amp; what he did.  The analogy was funny &amp; the group had a good laugh. I will remember this person &amp; will give him a call if I need his product.</p>
<p>I came across this clip in relation to this subject &amp; thought it was worthwhile sharing with you. <a href="http://streetsmartinfluence.com/wordpress/2010/02/18/magic/">Magic of storytelling in business.</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/03/the-magic-of-storytelling-in-business/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Getting people on your side</title>
		<link>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/01/getting-people-on-your-side/</link>
		<comments>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/01/getting-people-on-your-side/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 13:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Make an Impression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[building relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[achievement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[listening]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[story telling]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://realsolutions.ie/?p=155</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A bank teller tells his story &#8211; &#8220;A man came into the  bank to open an account. I gave him the usual forms to fill out. Some of the questions he answered willingly, but there were others he flatly refused to answer. Before I began the study of human relations, I would have told this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A bank teller tells his story &#8211; &#8220;A man came into the  bank to open an account. I gave him the usual forms to fill out. Some of the questions he answered willingly, but there were others he flatly refused to answer.<img class="alignright" title="Yes" src="http://www.maryamwebster.com/uploads/Image/yes-cycle.gif" alt="" width="271" height="361" /></p>
<p>Before I began the study of human relations, I would have told this man that if he refused to give the bank this information , we would have to refuse to accept this account. I resolved this morning to use a bit of sense. I resolved not to talk about what the bank wanted but about whathe,  the customer wanted. And above all else I was determined to get him saying &#8216;yes, yes&#8217; from the very start. So I agreed with him. I told him the information he refused to give was not absolutely necessary. &#8220;However&#8221;, I said,  &#8220;suppose you have money in this bank at your death.  Wouldn&#8217;t you like to have the bank transfer it to your next of kin?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Yes, of course&#8221; he replied. &#8220;Don&#8217;t you think&#8221;, I continued, &#8220;that it would be a good idea to give us the name of your next of kin so that , in the event of your death we could carry out your wishes without delay?&#8221; Again he said  &#8220;yes&#8221;.</p>
<p>&#8220;The young man&#8217;s attitude softened &amp; changed when he realised that we weren&#8217;t asking for this information for our sake but for his sake. Before leaving the bank, this young man not only gave me complete information about himself but he opened, at my suggestion, a trust account , naming his mother as the beneficiary for this account&#8221;.</p>
<p>I found that by getting him to &#8220;yes, yes&#8221; from the outset , he forgot the issue at stake &amp; was more than happy to do all the things I suggested.&#8221;</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://realsolutions.ie/2010/01/getting-people-on-your-side/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

